Friday, February 26, 2010
Tuesday, February 23, 2010




Gym Class



Big Brother Justin stopped over for the morning with his new puppy, Lexi, and she conducted gym class for the morning. Lexi is a Lab mix and she is so full of energy:)
There is going to be a line up at lunch time--these guys have been at this for 2 hrs.!
There is always alot of excitement and high energy when Justin comes home to visit. He only lives about 35 minutes away, but it is always the same when he comes home...a frenzy:) I hope he feels loved:) Being the oldest is a challenge. I know we were so different when we were raising Justin and Jenna..much more structured and being a part of an organized christian religion also made a large impact on them. For our family-and I do realize that many would differ on this point--I really feel that was a negative . I will never forget Justin coming home from Jamaica-where he had spent nearly 2 mths. working on an orphanage- saying he had a good time-that the dicipline and the stuff he learned was positive, but that he felt like a hipocrite for agreeing with religious values he didn't share. That was a bittersweet moment for us..bitter because it caused us grief to know we had required he participate in this for graduation and we had caused him to be someone he was not...and sweet, because he was able stand alone and say " This is not for me!"--we had suceeded in instilling in Justin the ability to stand alone and stand up for what he believed in-even if it was different from the rest of his family at the time. Adults struggle with being different from their friends let alone their families..it is so much easier to just go along with the flow-and here was this young man saying he could respect the opinions of others and still speak up for his own opinion. That is what we wanted from homeschooling--the ability to be free-to be original and unique-and be happy about it. So often we disrespect ourselves by denying our true feelings. Justin helped us see that is what was happening in our family as well..it was the turning point in our family and I have to say that we have grown immeasurably closer--the respect we hold for eachothers thoughts and feelings is not a measure based on the size of the person..at our home EVERYONE'S opinion counts and we talk about our thoughts and feelings without fear that they will be discounted . I cannot tell you the difference this has made in our younger children-to know without doubt that they are equal with us-that they are valuable and their ideas are important. They often can provide just the right energy for whatever project we are working on.
I have to say thanks to Justin-he has been through the thick and the thin with us..growing up together and he had blazed a new trail that his sibs will be so much richer for. Thanks kiddo--we love you:)
Monday, February 22, 2010
Let it snow....

Well, that is Rick's passion--read on to learn more on the rest of the crew..
Friday, February 19, 2010
A Day In The Life...

Three Fridays a month you will find us at our homeschool co-op, but our van is broke down so we are home bound. Just as well since more than half of us have a nasty headcold!
We decided to have an artistic morning here at Maple Acre Farm..we broke out the finger paints for Francie, and Ruth Ann started a pot of her now famous Potato soup, while Seth and Annie started on their cut outs- tracings of their shapes and then "dressed and decorated." Samuel researched his next model car on the net and the olders slept on...
By the time everyone had finished their chosen projects it was lunch time...and the soup was smellin' yum!! We all snuggled down in the den and filled our tummies...finishing off the feast with popsickles:)
I feel so good to know that our kids are living the life of freedom. They are free to choose their next projects..free to play when they feel like it and free to create out of their imaginations! If we were in school--or even traditionally homeschooling, that would not be an option. In a family our size I am sure you imagine the insuing chaos that accompanies 7 different kids with 7 different personalities working on 7 different projects!!Plus, two creative parents who are quite artistic in their own rights:) Amazingly enough though, it works. We really try to maintain a home where everyone has a voice..and everyone is respected-not just the parents. Ours kids are wonderful fountains of inspiration to ous and we learn so much from them. Not that it is quiet-or that nobody disagrees here..lol..far from that..but the bottom line is we all believe in one another. We try to be peaceful and incorporate whole life learning into every situation..











